In all honesty, it sounds like she isnt interested bro. If by chance she is playing "hard to get" and has interest in you she will be the one to eventually text/call you. Dont lose any sleep over it, let her make the next move.

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PHF bros,
Met this girl in organic chem class over the summer and got her number. We've been texting for like 3 weeks every 2-3 days but we havent actually gone out yet. She hasn't been ignoring me, but she hasn't said yes (or no) when I ask her if she wants to meet up. This last Tuesday I saw her with her friends at a sports pub and we barely chatted (surrounded by her girl friends and the guys were seperated); She was constantly glancing over at me but when I finally got to talk to her she said she was tired from work, burnt out, etc but asked if I was having fun.
I havent texted her since Tuesday (5 days ago), but I am not sure if she's playing hard to get or what. I want to take her out, cause I suck at this texting pre-dating bullshit. She always texts me back (sometimes late but w/e), and she is a busy girl, but I feel like her interest level must not be that high if she hasn't wanted to meet up alone and I've been texting her for 3 weeks.
Thoughts?
btw, I'll prolly wait till tomorrow or Tues if she doesn't text me before then; I hate all these fucking games tho. (why hot bishes always gotta be hard??)
Last edited by andrewjx; 07-15-2012 at 07:22 PM.
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Is anything worth more than your soul?" -Matthew 16:26
In all honesty, it sounds like she isnt interested bro. If by chance she is playing "hard to get" and has interest in you she will be the one to eventually text/call you. Dont lose any sleep over it, let her make the next move.
I do it because i can, i can because i want to, i want to because you said i couldn't.
Just stop texting her. Srs. If she hits you up in a few days then try and slip your meat sausage in her. If not, she just isnt that into you.
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this is my thinking too, but if she is "on the fence" as in she likes me but she's not sure she wants to pursue anything more, I would be shooting myself in the foot by not texting her and being forward/confident to get a date right?
my two choices are:
1) stop texting; hope she texts but if she doesnt its over
2) text her in a few days; continue to be forward about meeting up - if ignored or rejected then stop
maybe i need to just persevere..
sounds like 2 is a better option IMO.
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"And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul?
Is anything worth more than your soul?" -Matthew 16:26
You're thinking about/putting too much effort into it. Seems like you've been pretty fucken engaging for the past 3 weeks. I'd just won't text her anymore. Just making it harder for you. The bish aint interested she aint interested. They're plenty of them out there.
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Yeah... if youve been asking her out for the past three weeks and being forward about it.. there really isnt a point in continuing that.
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Girls are a waste of time....why be chasing them when you could be eating and getting more jacked fibers? Let them come to you brah..
but srs get a hot escort......you pay them, there happy, they fuck you well and they leave after an hour...pretty much the perfect ending after busting a nut....drama free sex is priiiiiiicelesss
Agree with the call. Im young but from what ive learned is a chick still digs a call when asking to go out. If she doesnt wang to.......forget the bish.
I've only asked her to lunch twice, once two weeks ago and once last week. 1st time she ignored it completely, 2nd time she said she was busy but asked to reschedule (??)
I called her for one invitation; left a voicemail (asked her to go to lunch and about a party that weekend). When she got back to me she talked about the party but didn't say shit about getting together.
I think I'm just gonna let it ride for a couple of days and maybe forget it all together. It's just fucking gay because I know she got out of a relationship when summer started, and the girls that are actually date-able don't stay single long.
sigh, I'm just tired of one night stands lol.
Last edited by andrewjx; 07-15-2012 at 09:59 PM.
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"And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul?
Is anything worth more than your soul?" -Matthew 16:26
I hear ya man. I dont care what people say, there isnt anything like a good chick that will take care of your shit and keep you in line. One night stands are fun.....for awhile
Just wait... Friday night she would really like to do something but she has to wash her hair.
jus drop ur wiener on her desk & say, "hey bish, i got sum o-chem fo' ya!"
you're welcome bro.
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real shit, u dropped enough hints - inviting her to eat & what not, so i'm sure she knows ur interested. Try not asking her to go hang out, but tell her to hang out.
Last edited by oliolz; 07-16-2012 at 03:21 AM.
bail brotha, for all you know she could be laughing at you with all her girlfriends.
Just be with PHF, we will take care of you.
Call her bitch ass up!
You puttin the pussy on a pedestal...
Drop that bish...if you really wanna get to her...find a hotter bish...take the bish to where you know the original bish is gonna be...jealousy is a mother brah!
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It's hard to say what to do because I don't know what this girl is like or the whole scope of the situation. I can however tell you what worked for me to land my current gf who I've been with for the past year.
I'll give you the short version:
We did the same text/ fb message every now and then. I even invited her over for a movie a time or two both times she was busy. She does hair for a living so she agreed to come to my house to fix and color my mohawk. So instead of asking her to dinner I didn't give her an option and told her that as payment for doing my hair she had to let me take her to dinner. I didn't throw out a question for her to say no to and it worked. We went to dinner and the rest was history. In conversations later in our relationship she said she was really impressed that I showed a lot of confidence in just telling her we were going on a date but not being creepy about it. Cool story bro.
So I say get her to help you with something and tell her in return she has to let you take her out for dinner. Then on said dinner date charm the pants off her, I mean this litteraly. Just show a lot of confidence. If that doesn't work then she really isn't into you and its on to the next one. Good luck bro!
Option #2 would be to do "The Naked Man" in her living room.
If you haven't fucked her after one week, why bother? 2-3 weeks of texting? Fuck that!
Dude drop it, it's pretty clear from your posts she's not having any, who gives a shit, too many other girls out there....
If she does respond back to you in the next few days, ask her "who the fock is this?" be a raging dick to her, I hear girls like that..lol
Youve been texting for 3 weeks. If she liked you, youd have been on a date or been ball deep by now/thread.
Up your tren dose bro.
She done don't want the beef stick
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