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#51 poopypants

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Posted 06 February 2015 - 11:37 PM

Hah,beau, that's classic.

My wife is on the know. Again, within the first year of living together, I broke it to her.

I do make "larger than specified" orders from time to time though.

Funny thing is, I'm way nicer while on, have less mood swings, look better and am better in the bedroom...

She likes me to be ON and even supports my now self prescribed trt... took a while to get all the way there(IM administration) but wouldn't have ever worked if I tried to hide it. It would have been detrimental to my relationship if I had hid it and she found out and would forever cause her to question me on other aspects had I got caught up lying over that kind of thing...

Honesty will make both of you happy, cause either she'll be on board, or she won't, but at least you'll know up front and won't be delaying the inevitable...
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Posted 07 February 2015 - 09:33 AM

I do make "larger than specified" orders from time to time though.  SORT OF MY STEREO MANTRA

It would have been detrimental to my relationship if I had hid it and she found out and would forever cause her to question me on other aspects had I got caught up lying over that kind of thing...  YES, ESPECIALLY WITH STUFF LIKE "DRUGS", ALCOHOL AND OTHER WOMEN

 

 

I obviously joke around a lot.

 

The reality is, it is critical to be honest.

 

My (very thankfully) ex-wife had a couple of affairs.  After her first, I never really trusted her (and part of that was me "just because", but most was that was her - in that she never really seemed to have visible remorse).  Once a liar, always ......  Same thing - once a cheater, always a gash.

 

I do not lie to my wife.  She does not hold me accountable for every piece of stereo gear any more than I hold her accountable for every blouse or pair of shoes.

 

But, with anything of any consequence or if I feel the least bit jinky about not telling her - I tell her.

 

Telling the truth is a gift to yourself.  And - knowing you have to do so sort of helps keep you from doing some stupidly impulsive things. 

 

Now, back to the OP and his quest to bury the helmet in her brown eye.



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Posted 07 February 2015 - 10:16 AM

^its all about that bass, bout that bass, bout that bass?

 

Well, I've got stupid mid-bass as well.

 

I have Eminence Deltalite 2512s as mid-bass.

 

My wife cringes.



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Posted 07 February 2015 - 03:44 PM

Hah,beau, that's classic.

My wife is on the know. Again, within the first year of living together, I broke it to her.

I do make "larger than specified" orders from time to time though.

Funny thing is, I'm way nicer while on, have less mood swings, look better and am better in the bedroom...

She likes me to be ON and even supports my now self prescribed trt... took a while to get all the way there(IM administration) but wouldn't have ever worked if I tried to hide it. It would have been detrimental to my relationship if I had hid it and she found out and would forever cause her to question me on other aspects had I got caught up lying over that kind of thing...

Honesty will make both of you happy, cause either she'll be on board, or she won't, but at least you'll know up front and won't be delaying the inevitable...

how did you slowly break it to her?

 

hints here and there and slowly eased into telling her gradually or just one random time told her?

 

whats the best way to tell her?



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Posted 07 February 2015 - 08:14 PM

I eased into it gradually as things seemed more serious... no point in divulging that info to just every girl as some guys do, that can def go against you easily too...

You already pinning? Or just orals?

I was only using orals and transdermals at the time we got together but was planning on pinning...

She would notice quick changes. See me taking pills. They were slowly labeled as supplements first, than muscle builders. Eventually I was doing "cycles" but that was still a vague term... Eventually she asked again one time about what I was taking n I kinda started off with explaining "you know how I'm on the internet all the time, researching, reading studies etc"... "it's because those are steroids and if they are taken correctly and cautiously they can be very safe and beneficial"...

Then came the flood of concerns, preconceived notions and ill informed opinions... so of course I then referenced personal past experience and interaction between us, has she ever actually seen any of those stigmas present in my behaviour, physical response or effecting my sexual performance... referred to again my doing tons of research... referred to medical applications of steroids and they're obvious safety... etc... Again, with properly formed sentences and vocabulary, a cool head and addressing each concern one by one, it became pretty much pointless to contest my use at that point.

Her getting on board with IM administration took quite a bit longer... initially she only agreed to it if it were prescribed and this was also somewhat based around her fear of having syringes in the house with children... over time I wore her down on that subject, got her to jump on board with me for peps (she'll be using them too along with mt2)... then with needles already in the house, easily got her to agree self administered IM trt would be best over self administered transdermals because the drs visits were going to be expensive and repetitive for at least a year n cost quite a bit, while class 3 drug possession has essentially become a ticket now, not a jailable felony in Ca and there are no needle possession restrictions either. Kinda all came together at once, but only happened cause she was on board and we had open discussions regarding the subject...

had I never dropped the first bit of hints to her and then opened conversation over it n she decided to Google one of my bottles someday n found out what it was... or had I decided to just go against her initial wished n started pinning n hiding it n then she found out... well, neither of those situations would have ended well n at the least would have sewn seeds of distrust that would eventually grow into other issues...

Even if your already pinning, this wouldn't be 100% what you'd do, but honestly, just being smart and addressing the situation with plenty of info and personal examples will be your biggest ally... if she still can't get on board, is close minded, obstinate or ignorant by choice and this is something your serious about or been doing a long time, then I'd break it off anyways cause you know you'll never be really happy being with someone who holds you back from doing what you really want n you will resent her for that... certain considerations can be made n intermediate ground can be found too, but not everyone will eventually get what they want n may be perpetually stuck on the middle ground...
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Posted 07 February 2015 - 08:40 PM

started pinning this year -2014- got on doctors trt.  before that did ph/ds from 2004-2014 

 

Thank you for writing all that out, im glad you and your girl have worked this out


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Posted 08 February 2015 - 04:44 PM

All awesome advice thanks guys for the feedback
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Posted 08 February 2015 - 06:48 PM

All awesome advice thanks guys for the feedback

 

Ahem, ahem - you left our a few details ......



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Posted 08 February 2015 - 10:52 PM

Lol went to the casino got a room, got drunk, #5 worked like a charm didn't need any of the other steps
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#60 BeauB

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Posted 09 February 2015 - 12:08 AM

So when you were done, "that part" looked like it was singing "Oklahoma"; correct?


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Posted 10 February 2015 - 03:26 PM

Twas wistlen dixie
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#62 usmfan84

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Posted 24 February 2015 - 07:12 PM

I just started having my wife do the pinning which cleared up everything from the get go haha.



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Posted 27 February 2015 - 10:16 PM

Interesting enough she's just started in a medical setting and was trained to do so so now she wants to practice on a real person instead of a dummy. Free pins and trained person to do injections.... um awesome
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Posted 16 March 2015 - 06:18 PM

She's either gotta be down with it or you stop.  No way around that really...

Or dump her! lol


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Posted 16 March 2015 - 11:02 PM

If you can safely continue and with no mood changes then you have to be honest with her.  If she can't accept it, she's not right for you.  You aren't going to stop anytime soon, and it's part of your life. 

Just make sure its not changing ur moods and hurting ur relationship. Certain compounds that can cause aggression like dbol for example, can hurt a relationship and at that point, you are being selfish if you continue.  I remember a decade ago, i used to run dbol and halo and it would make me so furious and me and my gf at the time would fight alot.  I threw it all out, because it was not fair to her. And i hated how I felt.

 

At the same time..if u ever break up, or get close to it, clean house that day.  Cause even a woman you think you can trust your life with, will turn your ass in..in the blink of an eye.  Don't think you are "different"...or if u have kids with her you will escape their wrath.


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Posted 17 March 2015 - 10:06 PM

My girlfriend doesn't know I pin, but she knows I have more than your average knowledge of A&P and endocrinology. She just assumes it's because I'm doing the med student gig. She did, however, ask in a tone I recognize if women ever used steroids. Specifically, what athletes might use that wouldn't make them look like men. She's doing an Ironman in November. I didn't follow through, but the concept my girlfriend could get finer while sharing in steroid use made me ready to go find a ring. Plus the love and support and stuff... but the ROIDS, man.


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Posted 03 June 2015 - 08:21 PM

My wife found out I was on and didn't really care except that I was injecting myself with potentially unknown stuff (UGL).

She did get mad though when I was on tren and when drunk I kinda lost control, which would not have happened without tren. I don't care what yall say, tren makes me a monster. So just explain all the compounds to her. That's what I do when I want to run a cycle now, I explain all the things I'm going to run, the sides, the expected outcome. If you educate her she will probably be more accepting (hopefully), my wife was.
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Posted 07 September 2015 - 01:31 PM

im with baeu b

anal bro, calms them down like giving a dog a bone. As long as you're not on tren or deca you should b ABLE TO GET IT RIGHT UP. My current girlfriend was all for the test until I had to go and miss some AI doses and wound up taking letro (no libido caused 3 months of sex related arguments). Also seems to be a negative stigma around "juice heads" 



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Posted 07 September 2015 - 01:36 PM

My wife found out I was on and didn't really care except that I was injecting myself with potentially unknown stuff (UGL).

She did get mad though when I was on tren and when drunk I kinda lost control, which would not have happened without tren. I don't care what yall say, tren makes me a monster. So just explain all the compounds to her. That's what I do when I want to run a cycle now, I explain all the things I'm going to run, the sides, the expected outcome. If you educate her she will probably be more accepting (hopefully), my wife was.

 

anavar!! lol I could dream about that all day :glare: :shifty:

just glad mine started really seriously hitting the weights and doing hella cardio (shes not fat but she started developing a passion for working out like I do which is pretty hot)‚Äč



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Posted 19 September 2015 - 12:43 PM

I obviously joke around a lot.

The reality is, it is critical to be honest.

My (very thankfully) ex-wife had a couple of affairs. After her first, I never really trusted her (and part of that was me "just because", but most was that was her - in that she never really seemed to have visible remorse). Once a liar, always ...... Same thing - once a cheater, always a gash.

I do not lie to my wife. She does not hold me accountable for every piece of stereo gear any more than I hold her accountable for every blouse or pair of shoes.

But, with anything of any consequence or if I feel the least bit jinky about not telling her - I tell her.

Telling the truth is a gift to yourself. And - knowing you have to do so sort of helps keep you from doing some stupidly impulsive things.

Now, back to the OP and his quest to bury the helmet in her brown eye.


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